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LET GO OF THE REST

No matter who you are, what you look like, or what you share with the world, there will always be someone who doesn’t approve of you. You are who you are, and you’re enough. It isn’t your job to conform to their idea of what constitutes a "worthwhile" human being. Instead of focusing on all of the people who don’t approve ofyou, try to take some time today to remind yourself of all the people who do appreciate and accept you. They’re the people whomatter. To them, you matter. Let go of the rest.

UNWELL

There are times when you feel lost and somehow you wanted to just vanish. Times that you don't want to get up to bed and you don't want to eat and you don't care about the surroundings and you don't want to deal with life and you just wanted to perish. It is just so funny how you feigned so much attention of being okay, but deep inside you are wholly broken. You tried to paint a smile on your face and imitate a boisterous laughter and pretend you're having a good life where in reality,you are suffering from anxiety. You don't even know what is really happening to you. You're trying to be good and do the normal things just the normal people do. But, nomatter what you are up to, still you don;t have peace inside your heart. SOmethings really happening internally that you cannot explain and you couldn't disclose to anyone. It is so silly thinking that you don't know yourself quite well. There are somecertian feature of you that you just don't embra...

TIME WILL TELL

When someone comes and tells you, I can't sleep without you, I love you the way you are and I can put up with your good and bad attitude. Before you commit your heart please GIVE IT TIME. When You just meet someone today and feel like marrying him/her tomorrow, before you do remember you need to GIVE IT TIME When you visit your uncle and you stay there for 2months holidays, don't be carried away that they serve you your preferred food and give you hot water to bath during your first two days and you start making arrangement to relocate to their house, First GIVE IT TIME. When a brother visits you and wakes you up by his shouting of prayer from 12am to 6am, please don't be carried away, first GIVE IT TIME. When a brother joins your fellowship in First year and he is in every group/wing, please don't rush and make him a leader,rather GIVE IT TIME. When you enter a new environment and everybody worships you and eats your mess don't be carried away just GIVE IT TI...

LOSING AND GAINING

Life is all about things that are lostand things gained. You lose your time, you gain sympathy, and you lose your senses. You enjoy things when you lose yourself, and you gainthings when you’re lost deeply in something you love. Losing and gaining are simply two sides of a coin, and they go back and forth just like a pendulum. You can’t see, think about, or even image a world where there is only winning and no losing. See, winning implies that there are winners and losers. Hencethe identity of a winner is largely defined by a loser’s existence. A child gets 90% in her grades and feels happy, because the median was 75%. A life where only things are gained, like love, romance, money, culture, society, are all things that entertain the mind until we realize their futility. Life is meant as a way to enjoy life, and not focus on shortterm gains and loses as something to hold onto until you naturally pass on.

HAPPINESS

Be kind to yourself and to others. Be positive. The energy you send out to the universe is what you'll get back. Always help someone you might be the only one. I wish more people cared about the earth as much as they care about who they believe created it. Earth is our home and a home to many animals please take care of it. Always be open minded, being close minded never benefits anyone. Respect others. Take care of your body, mind and soul. Eat well. Drink water more often. Your mind is a powerful thing. When you fill it with positive thoughts, your life with start to change. You have more control of your mind than you think. Of course there will be bad days, you'll have negative thoughts but don't let it consume you, shake it off and move on. Don't dwell on the past. Live in the moment. Supporting another's success will never dampen yours. Be humble. Learn from your mistakes. Do better always do better don't stay stuck. Be genuine and generous. Don't hold ...

"Anger is our inner Enemy which makes us to fall down from Peacefulliving" Though it is a natural human emotion, many of the times its exposition proved to be counterproductive. We have to taste the bitterness of its consequences in the form of repentance or retaliation by other on whom we exhibit our anger. I could not write the feel good stories of love, kindness, compassion which makes the readers to have wonderful feeling of our human life and God's grace. But I am interested in writing about managing Human emotions and their related stories which throw a light that brightens the path towards Happy living. Anger emanates from disappointed ,discouraged and hurting mind. Usually right from the childhood we feed our minds with certain likes and dislikes of our own choices. When things go against our choices or something undesirable happens suddenly we get angry. Not only that when we have the common perception of all the things are under our control and all things could be done according to our whims, if anything that occurred against to our estimation, then the"ego" of our mind don't accept the natural truth and the feeling of hurt overtake on our discriminationor the judging quality, so causes theupsurge of Anger. Whatever may be the causes, the words we speak in rage and the actions we indulge in the anger, those leave a permanent scar on others physicaly and emotionally. Sometimes the anger results in irreparable damage on our lives if not controlled. Many people argue that, why should we hide our anger and to behave diplomatic before others, later this kind of behaviour will have personal side effects. Yes we shall not hide or suppress our anger as long as it doesn't hurt others. There is a saying in Sanskrit " Uttamah Kshana kopasyath" means, good people have anger of negligible time period and they forget their unhappiness or irritation easily. But the anger in hideous would take its serious ramifications, it seize away our sleep and endanger the health. There is a theory that goes against the anger, whenever we got angry the internal life energy takes the negative or darker shade and the whole life force has to be focussed in our furious emotion to abuse or slander the others. This entire energy would be grasped effortlessly by the targeted personif he receives the burning emotion with a pleasant smile. There is a story of Buddha to put a check on the emotion of anger."Once Buddha was travelling along with his disciples and halted under the shade of huge tree near a village. As the news spread like wildfire all over the area, all the villagers gathered before Buddha for blessings. One surly man was observing all these couldn't control his temper out of jealous came before Buddha and started to blameand scold for his incapacity and making the people unworthy fools. He added that Buddha was a thief who wants to plunder the hard earned food and possessions of people with his sweet lies. Buddha smiled over the words of that man asked, when you bring a precious gift by spending money to present to a person and if that person doesn't accept your gift what happen to the gift. The bad tempered man said the precious giftif not accepted it would be with the man who brought it. Then Buddha replied with cool smile, here I am not accepting your gift of words what you uttered, so they are with you. Later the man crawl down before Buddha for his wrong deed. Here I just want you to search the source of Anger which steal our mental peace. It is suggested to accept the unacceptable, allow the undesirable people to go in their own way and don't try to reform them to the extent that they do notharm the people and disturb the social harmony. It is better to bear in mind that everyone has their owndesires and choices, we cannot control their activities. The main source for anger is that, if the desires are not fulfilled or the jealous about others growth and development. Here the anger should be harnessed in a positive way to concentrate on our personal endeavour to grow and develop beyond our mentors. When we think about others our energies are wasted and our actions proved to be unproductive, while we concentrate on our personal growth and reform , sure we will be at top.