LUHMIE's World

Sometimes, we need to forgive the person who wronged us, regardless if they apologize or not. Because, it is for our own peace of mind and it is like starting a new chapter in our life. We don't need to cling to the wrong things they have done to us. We must be thankful that it happened and we must not cry over it again and again. We need to smile because it happened. Because when you forgive, it takes away the burden that you've been carrying. Because when you forgive, you will be happy. and because forgiving is for your personal growth. Forgiveness, is one of the hardest thing to do. It's not an overnight effect that you can immediately forgive someone. It takes a lot of tries like, twice thrice or perhaps a couple of times. Forgiving someone is a tool for own peace. Do not prolong your agony! Life is too short to grieve over something that can be forgiven. Live life while you have it. :)

Stay true to yourself. Don’t worry about what people think of you or about the way they try to make you feel. If people want to see you as a good person, they will. If they want to see you as a bad person, absolutely nothing you do will stop them. Ironically, the more you try to show them your good intentions, the more reason you give them to knock you down if they are commited to misunderstanding you. Keep your head up high and be confident in what you do. Be confident in your intentions and keep your eyes ahead instead of wasting your time on those who want to drag you back. Because you can’t change people’s views, you have to believe that true change for yourself comes from within you, not from anyone else.